When a chick flirts with you, I am not put up a couldn’t-care-less act, just grit my teeth and play it cool to prove how secure I am. A total absence of jealousy is a sign that I am not invested in the relationship. So I will sneak up by your side and whisper to your ear, ''I don’t like the way she is hanging all over you.'' This is to let you know that the threat of losing you disturbs me and I am demonstrating a genuine desire to protect our bond. I am not neurotic and needy. Just a little territorial.